In Afrikaans, we say "die vere maak nie die voël nie", which means the same The point is, when I judge you based how you look (your outer image), I am actually judging the bird on its feathers Does this define who you are? I don't think so. What do you? So do you agree it does not say anything about the chicken!! Does it? If all a chicken's feathers are removed, you still have a chicken, don't you? Hhmmmm... So why am I writing all this here, there is a point I want to make. Never judge someone based on what you "think" you know of them. Remember you don't know what you don't know of them.