Attitude

You have the power to decide if you are kind or nasty to someone else.

How you react to someone's caring words, or loving stroke is up to you, and you alone.

You decide and you alone, and you are in full control of the decisons you make in reaction to someone else's stimuli on you.

So what's the big deal then. Ok let me share my take on this with you. How you react (reflex) or respond (after thinking) is determined by what you believe.

You are in full control of how you respond or react.

Its no myth, you actually take a concious decision to respond or react.

Whether you react, how you react, what get said and so and so on is a direct result of your thought and beliefs (what you believe is true for you).
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