"Don't be afraid to let go. Every new adventure begins with the ending of another." - The Better Man Project
Why are we so scared to let go?
Honestly, it mostly revolves around the idea that we don't think we will find anything better.
We think that what we experienced in the past is the best possible thing that could have happened to us and that nothing else in the future will come along to replace it.
But the truth is, when you really look at it, every ending of a story is a bit chaotic but it always births something new. Out of every dark space we have to walk through we end up returning back into the light.
This is absolutely true in relationships. Many times you have to walk away from someone and the pain feels unending. But the reality is that there was probably someone before that person who you had to heal from as well.
Understand that someone new will come into your life and heal the wounds that you are carrying. They will soothe your soul in ways that the other person could not.
And it will happen again...
And another after that...
Eventually, someone will come into your life who refuses to let you go. They will want to be with you forever and will fight for you when you need to be fought for and support you when you need to be supported.
And how great of a day that will be.
So until that day, you have to keep to your faith and understand that life is a grand series of challenges and victories for those who really decide to live.
Life gives you exactly what you need vs. what you want.
It might not always be the prettiest lesson in the world, but it's exactly what you need in order to grow and move forward with your life.
You will always learn and always grow if you stay open and willing to experience everything that life has to offer you.
That's a happy life. That's one of fulfillment.
Trust that.
Why are we so scared to let go?
Honestly, it mostly revolves around the idea that we don't think we will find anything better.
We think that what we experienced in the past is the best possible thing that could have happened to us and that nothing else in the future will come along to replace it.
But the truth is, when you really look at it, every ending of a story is a bit chaotic but it always births something new. Out of every dark space we have to walk through we end up returning back into the light.
This is absolutely true in relationships. Many times you have to walk away from someone and the pain feels unending. But the reality is that there was probably someone before that person who you had to heal from as well.
Understand that someone new will come into your life and heal the wounds that you are carrying. They will soothe your soul in ways that the other person could not.
And it will happen again...
And another after that...
Eventually, someone will come into your life who refuses to let you go. They will want to be with you forever and will fight for you when you need to be fought for and support you when you need to be supported.
And how great of a day that will be.
So until that day, you have to keep to your faith and understand that life is a grand series of challenges and victories for those who really decide to live.
Life gives you exactly what you need vs. what you want.
It might not always be the prettiest lesson in the world, but it's exactly what you need in order to grow and move forward with your life.
You will always learn and always grow if you stay open and willing to experience everything that life has to offer you.
That's a happy life. That's one of fulfillment.
Trust that.
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