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29 January 2019

How To Cope With Raw Emotions

By Jose Roberts


It is not always that you want to express your emotions so that they are raw. You can't walk around being completely open all the time. You have to be in the right place to be vulnerable, with the right people. However, it is important to have raw emotions and to speak from the heart. This is not only going to help you, but it will help others as well.

People experience these types of emotions for a number of different reasons. Some people will not have learned how to control their emotions. Other people just don't know how to express themselves. There may be too much information coming in and you just need to escape from everything.

Once you have had the chance to express this type of emotion, it can be a huge relief. You get so much off your chest and it is a release in the burden which you may have been carrying around for some time. It can obviously be a challenge to push yourself, because you are going out of your comfort zone, but the rewards pay off.

Other things on a temporary nature can lead to these emotions brewing up. The individual often thinks that it is just temporary and they will get over it. However, it is not as simple as this. When you are facing a challenge in your life, you need to deal with it at the present time, otherwise you are going to be presented with other problems as well.

When you don't make the effort to work through your feelings, you will experience a heaviness building up. You will find that your relationships are tricky to work through. It can become tense when you are with other people because you often irritable and frustrated.

To combat these feeling, it is a good idea to be aware of what you are going through. You need to recognize every time you are being angry with yourself or with those around you. There are specific techniques which can help reduce the anxiety. People engage in mindfulness and meditation. This takes time to get used to the process. It is not instant, but you will find that it pays off.

Learning specific breathing exercises are a bit like meditation as well. It helps you to keep you in the present moment. You will only focus on your breathing and nothing else. People who react quickly will benefit from this. There are also techniques to help them cope in these instances. It can especially be helpful for borderline patients who tend to react. DBT therapy can be helpful for this.

With fear, it is often negative thoughts which can bring you down. You begin to have a low self esteem and a low confidence level. A therapist who specializes in this techniques aims at helping the individual to become less skeptical and more positive about themselves and their surroundings. It will lead to a healthier lifestyle as well. Their relationships will improve and overall they will feel content from one day to the next. However, it is not something that is cured overnight, and one needs to be patient.




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