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30 March 2015

Tips In Dealing With Insecurities In A Relationship

By Iva Cannon


When in love, people do things that they do not usually do. They show their romantic sides and exhibit their sweet gestures. They even exchange sweet words to those they love. They always want to spend quality time with these persons.

However, complete joy in the partnerships may not experienced by some people. Insecurities are usually possessed by them. A few tips could be followed by these individuals in dealing with insecurities in a relationship.

Different people have different personalities which is why they also interact with their partners in a different way. For this, the individuals should not compare their current partnerships with their past ones. If their past partners know how to cook meals, they should not expect that their current ones know the same. This way, they will not disappoint themselves.

Everyone has his or her own ideal partner. However, the person must not be looking for a perfect partnership. This type of partnership does not exist. The result of this situation depends on the amount of work both sides will be placing into their partnership. Both parties should be making compromises for them to be living harmoniously together.

In any partnership, communication is important. Communication should be clear between the individuals so that mind reading can be prevented. For instance, if stressful situations are experienced at their jobs and they do not like to be disturbed by their partners at certain times, such should be communicated. Their significant others should not be shout out. This way, negative assumptions will not be made by their partners.

The persons should focus on positive things and not the negative ones. They should see the good things that may happen on their lives. If they encounter hardships or difficulties, they should hope for good results afterwards. For instance, if their partners have jobs in other countries, they should think that after some time, they will come back and both of them can share the fruits of their labors.

They must also avoid too much jealousy that may lead them to control their partnerships too much. They should allow their partners to mingle with other people, may they be males or females. They should also give them the freedom to choose the movies that they can watch together, the meals that they can eat together, the outfits that they should wear during their dates, and others.

Self assurance should always be sought by the persons and their selves should be depended more. While it is a fact that someone is needed by individuals to share passionate hugs with, talk to romantically, or cuddle with, others should not be depended too much. They could become clingy to their partners in these situations even if these are not healthy partnerships.

Most importantly, they should avoid paranoia. Paranoia and jealousy go hand in hand. They should not assume that their partners will leave them for other persons. The individuals should not read the cellphone or email messages of their partners without their permissions. This way, they can still show respect to their privacy. Most of the times, paranoids only create scenarios out of fear.




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