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30 October 2013

How To Be Popular And Make Friends

By Lloyd Y. Daniel


The aim of most high school students is to be popular; they will do anything they can to make sure they're recognized among many people. However, being popular isn't easy. Being popular doesn't simply mean having good looks. There are many qualities that make people popular. Luckily, here are some simple methods that will help you on your path to becoming a popular student.The first thing to know about popular kids is that they don't necessarily have to have good looks, but instead they have some other qualities that attract people to them. Popular kids are usually friendly with everyone without preference. They also have confidence, which is an important trait to have despite who you are.

BE FRIENDLY: You must be polite with every single student! If you want to become popular at college and want people to be nice to you, you can not afford to be harsh with them no matter who they are. One bad impression can ruin everything for you. People are naturally attracted to others who smile a lot and are positive, so no matter how down you get try to smile at others and greet them. Always be positive since people always like an optimistic personality. Never talk bad about the people EVER! even if they are not present as they will not appreciate hearing about it from someone else. Listen and Talk to people and help them out if they have ANY kind of problems.

BE ACTIVE: If you really want to be popular you MUST participate in all sorts of activities going around in the college. All colleges have NUMEROUS activities and you need to attend the most you can. Join clubs and organisations as it is a great way to meet new people and make friends. The most friends you have or in other words the more people you impress the more popular you get! There are many other ways such as going to parties. Parties are probably a better way to interact with other students since students are in a more relaxed atmosphere at the parties and more open to social interaction.

Popular kids don't try to make up a fake attitude so that they can get people to like them. This might work for a little bit, but people will notice the others' true self and stay away from them. If people don't like you for who you are, then there's no reason to be friends with them. You'll most likely not talk to them again.There are many things people want to be, including being popular. But if you're not yourself, you'll never be able to achieve your goals. Try hard, but be yourself in the process.

There you have it 7 tips to help you become popular with others. Using these tips will help you gain friends, strengthen the friendships you have. They will help you gain more influence in your workplace and maybe help you move up the career ladder.Start putting them into practice and remember all of these tips are focused on other people. I wasn't sure about tip no 7 being focused on others but then I realised it is, because you are giving something of yourself to others.To repeat myself:Popularity isn't self-serving, it is about serving others. It's about giving to others, not taking.




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