Most shy guys have problems with approaching women. They don't know what to do, what to say and in most cases they don't even try to approach women to learn how to do it. Why? Approaching women is not only a great way to get to know someone special - it's also a lot of fun. In this article you'll get to know three tips which will help you approach women.
1. Don't hesitate
He who hesitates doesn't get results. Hesitation isn't your friend - the longer you think about approaching a girl instead of doing it, the more difficult it's going to appear and the lower the chance you're actually going to approach. Use the 3-seconds rule and don't give yourself more than 3 seconds to approach a girl you find attractive. Stop thinking about simple things and just go and do or say the first thing that comes to your mind. Yes, you'll probably make a fool of yourself the first few times but you're going to learn very quickly this way.
2. Make it a part of you
Approach women everywhere you go. If you want to become successful with women, you can't simply approach women once a week in a club. The more women you approach, the sooner you become good with them. Approaching during the day is especially effective since it's more difficult than approaching in a night club where most girls expect to be seduced. And since it's more difficult, you'll learn more.
3. The most important thing to do
Here's a simple challenge for all guys who want to become good with women as quickly as possible - go out and approach 50 women in the street telling them the first thing that comes up to your mind such as "I'm John and you're... cute. I want to get to know you. Who you are?" or something along the lines. Don't be a sissy - be direct. Approaching women regularly is the best way to improve your skills quickly. You can even forget about reading pick-up materials - just go out and practice on your own and you'll get better results.
These three tips may seem simple, some people may even call them common knowledge, yet most shy guys still make excuses why they can't approach women. I'm sure that if you follow these tips (especially the third one), you'll dramatically improve your social skills and become good with women even in a few months.
Last but not least, keep in mind that approaching women should be all about fun. If you don't enjoy it, you won't improve quickly. Learn how to act in spite of fear and you'll quickly start feeling excited instead of anxious. Good luck!
1. Don't hesitate
He who hesitates doesn't get results. Hesitation isn't your friend - the longer you think about approaching a girl instead of doing it, the more difficult it's going to appear and the lower the chance you're actually going to approach. Use the 3-seconds rule and don't give yourself more than 3 seconds to approach a girl you find attractive. Stop thinking about simple things and just go and do or say the first thing that comes to your mind. Yes, you'll probably make a fool of yourself the first few times but you're going to learn very quickly this way.
2. Make it a part of you
Approach women everywhere you go. If you want to become successful with women, you can't simply approach women once a week in a club. The more women you approach, the sooner you become good with them. Approaching during the day is especially effective since it's more difficult than approaching in a night club where most girls expect to be seduced. And since it's more difficult, you'll learn more.
3. The most important thing to do
Here's a simple challenge for all guys who want to become good with women as quickly as possible - go out and approach 50 women in the street telling them the first thing that comes up to your mind such as "I'm John and you're... cute. I want to get to know you. Who you are?" or something along the lines. Don't be a sissy - be direct. Approaching women regularly is the best way to improve your skills quickly. You can even forget about reading pick-up materials - just go out and practice on your own and you'll get better results.
These three tips may seem simple, some people may even call them common knowledge, yet most shy guys still make excuses why they can't approach women. I'm sure that if you follow these tips (especially the third one), you'll dramatically improve your social skills and become good with women even in a few months.
Last but not least, keep in mind that approaching women should be all about fun. If you don't enjoy it, you won't improve quickly. Learn how to act in spite of fear and you'll quickly start feeling excited instead of anxious. Good luck!
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