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30 August 2012

Benefits Of Disconnecting Cords Of Attachment

By Nichole Cunningham


Cords of attachment are the bitter memories of the past specifically when it is attributed to a certain person whom one feels unable to get along with easily. A good example is when working with others or at home when we imagine of how bad they are and quite unqualified to be the co-workers. However, with this kind of tension being created, it is wiser to break the pattern and move on afresh without having ills to hold against others.

The nature of the obstacles' structure may not be seen clearly without a keen consideration of various factors. This includes coming up with a way to secretively cut the cords and without sending signals to the interested parties that something is meant to be changed. This will give a chance to the spiritual connection benefits to continue being reaped even as the friendship settles on a new level of relationship.

A friend who strains to keep others in the faith that he or she enjoys their company is wrong for fighting a battle he or she will never win. This is because even by pretending, one cannot erase the actual feelings in the heart. An unhealthy relationship will be fostered by the pretence unlike when they could be broken and the quality of friendship would improve. This will help make every moment profitable and not boring as either of the parties tries to forge a good feeling through a smile.

Love and friendship requires a mutual contribution which when denied, the warmth of having a friend is lost. This is because of poor understanding and unequal sharing between the two parties. It is worse in a family when the husband and wife or children are the parties in a disagreement. Moreover, it is worst in a working environment for the earnings of a company can reduce drastically.

Cutting the attachment cords marks a turning point in the life of an individual who will now look at his or her friends from a different angle. Rather than always seeing the failures of friends, this helps in changing the bad perception about them. Coming to a point of a new relationship level will help a lot mainly for the new friends that were previously judged wrongly.

The structure that cause unequal love and care are invisible to the naked eye it is not easy to identify the cause and this is only possible through meditating. This will help in noting the point of disagreement where one feels that others just joke around with his or her feelings before everything can go to uncontrollable levels.

Everybody is craving for a time when they can spend time with their spouses, co-workers or friends and feel at home. When the time we spend with others can turn out to be the worst nightmare, we may lose on getting the value of that friendship. It is thus a necessity to break all the structures that may be causing emotional stress between two people.

Cords of attachment bring on board the old feelings that remind a person of the dark past. Due to the emotional, physical and spiritual unrest that accompany them, it is better to cut them and move on in life when fresh and sober in the mind. Improved relationship will be born out of this disconnection and the benefits of the mutual friendship.




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